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nettle_tasha
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first pregnancy
28th Jul, 2010

hey im 12 weeks gone with my first. Very excited only things is im looking through all the threads and loads of people are saying how amazing sex when pregnant is.....thing is my partner is suddenly not interested at all. He has said he finds it a little strange but with all my hormones going crazy its making me feel like pregnancy has improved our emotional relationship but killed our physical one. He is dealing with his mother currently having treatment for breast cancer, but i cant help but feel that its my fault that, to put it in simple terms, he doesnt want me anymore. We did speak about this briefly and he did say it will get back to normal but its been almost 2 months..........

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nettle_tasha
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Re: first pregnancy
28th Jul, 2010

can i add that he's been great with everything else, hes already started thinking of names and he talks to my tummy, he's very excited. So he's certainley not making things hard for me - looking back on what i wrote maybe its just me being selfish

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raybells
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Re: first pregnancy
4th Aug, 2010

Hi there I have the same issue and I feel exactly the same as you! I have been quite upset about it and have spoken to my partner which really reassured me. He's a little anxious about the baby and afraid of doing any damage! Even though I have explained to him that its perfectly safe its taking him a while to adjust. The only advice I can give is to talk to ur partner and you'll feel much better, we have to remember that what they feel during the pregnancy is probably totally different to us! Give it time, best of luck!

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doler
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Re: first pregnancy
25th Aug, 2010

hi girls.. my hubby was the same until the weekend and I'm 15 weeks gone, all of a sudden I felt really h*rney and started to turn him on and it soon he forgot about hurting the baby :) have to say we both enjoyed it and glad i have some interest in sex back.....

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